Month: July 2021

i’m kind of crazy – (a confusing vlog update)

Journal entry from April 27th-

“Yes, I live somewhere else, and yes, we still love each other. Please understand… this phase we are in doesn’t have a label. It doesn’t have to appear a certain way for it to work. It’s complicated. But we are still married. We are still partners. I haven’t called it quits and neither has he. For the purpose of growth, healing, and love for our kids, we are still a family and need to learn how to communicate better. Period.”

Music: Positive Motivation – by purple planet
& Foo Fighters-Learn To Fly With Lyrics

Website: https://deslobstudent.wordpress.com/

a food thing … choosing to co-parent

If you are here, it’s either because you stumbled across this video or maybe it’s because you’ve been following me on my journey. Either way, I appreciate your support.

As you might know, there are at least 2 paths that a distressed wife can take when choosing to separate herself from her husband. She can be scared, victim-like, and helpless, or she can be a bitch, onery badass. Well, this wife here chooses neither… I’m choosing to be a team player, I want nothing more than to get along with my husband as we sort through this separation and determine what will be the outcome of our marriage over the next several months. I want to have dinners as a family, I want to have outings attend special holiday events together and I want to continue the lines of communication. My husband and I got along great for the most part. We had a great partnership for almost 16 years. Just because we also have some ugly side to us once in a while, doesn’t mean I should through away the great parts about our co-parenting relationship. I explain more in this video while I try to make some “food thing” using several packets of a famous fast-food chain condiment. I’d be interested to know if you have any thoughts, please feel free to comment below – or you can email me at deslobstudent@gmail.com. Thank you again for your support!

Music: Candlepower by Chris Zabriskie & Positive Motivation – by purple planet

& Be Ok by Ookay x Elohim x Flux Pavilion

Website: https://deslobstudent.wordpress.com/

i’m like a bird – my skydiving adventure

This video has nothing to do with being a slob… or decluttering, or cleaning or anything of the sort – but as a passionate vlogger – I just wanted to share my skydiving adventure with you. let me know what you think, k? 🙂

music: R. Kelly – I Believe I Can Fly Nelly Furtado – Im Like A Bird Tom Petty – Free Fallin Peter Schilling – Major Tom Lenny Kravitz – Fly Away Tim McGraw – Live Like You Were Dying & The Beatles – Blackbird

Website: https://deslobstudent.wordpress.com/

and as a secret video that you can only see here…

my name is crystal – i’m the deslob student

Hello! My name is crystal – I’m the deslob student and I’m also about to chop off all my hair (in this video) as I try to make sense of who the “new me” is.

Music: Positive Motivation – by purple planet & Bulletproof – by La Roux

Bulletproof Lyric video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e53MbI6Rh20
Mel Robbins video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JpDqnQOnaMQ

Website: https://deslobstudent.wordpress.com/